Dating tips from a forty plus single woman on Older Dating Online

If you have just signed up on Older Dating Online and you are entering the dating social scene, you need to make a list of both your short term and your long term dating goals.

When I joined and created my online profile my short term goals were about meeting new and intelligent single men and I wanted to have fun going on dates.

My long term goal was about being in a relationship.

Both worked out well for me and they can for you too when you start your dating journey

Once you have set your goals stop making excuses and start meeting daters. Many woman feel that they need to lose weight or that now is not the right time. Stop the fear factor, if now is not the right time when is ?

When you’re feeling insecure and nervous take a small step and create your profile and add a picture. Once you’ve taken one step and you’ve had some online dating success,  the next step will be a lot easier.  You might find you’re having fun!

Men don’t love talking about feelings although they are far more emotional than you think.

End the cycle of being overly critical of yourself. You are a normal forty plus woman. You are not perfect and neither is the man that you are going to meet. It’s far more important to look for someone who will make you laugh and open your heart than it is to find a man who is 6 feet tall.

Get out of your comfort zone and date men who are different than your usual type. Meeting a man who is not your usual type could be the man who will make you very happy.

Stop dating from your mind and start dating from your heart. Your heart wants you to feel loved, cherished and adored which are qualities you want in a man if one of your goals is to be in a long term relationship.  Make yourself visible with great pictures and a warm inviting profile online.!

Men are visual and they want to see you and your beautiful smile not pictures of your cat,  or the scenery from your last vacation. There is a world of difference between a dating profile with pictures on it to one that has no profile pictures. It could be the difference between dating success and online dating failure.

Dating can be both overwhelming and exhausting. It’s important to take a break whenever you need to and to get back in touch when you feel rejuvenated and ready to date again.

Have fun and enjoy yourself

Sarah Hussey xx


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