Do forty plus women want sex on Older Dating Online?
Dating a forty plus man can be daunting as it seems to me that all they are interested in right from the start of the dating process is sex. To me it is important to be friends and know each other before starting to get intimate. Men on the other hand feel that to get to know you there needs to be intimacy. So how do forty plus daters get over this difference in sexual needs.
Is the problem that women of forty plus don’t want sex ? Definitely not as most women reach the peak of their sexual needs at this age and the lack of children responsibilities that most women are freed from at this age is an open invitation to lead a more sexually passionate lifestyle.
Most women appreciate sex as much as men do, however when a man rushes a sexual relationship a women can feel that they are being used and not appreciated. They want to be appreciated for more than their bodies. They want to feel that they are appreciated for more than their boobs and their butt and that they are appreciated for their brain and their personality too.
Attraction, can grow as you get to know each other and the level of connection becomes deeper. So stop looking for zigging chemistry when you are dating online. It’s not likely to happen when you are forty plus, sad but true and it is better to have a slow sizzle that bursts into hot passion over time.
Many older men online are looking for women much younger than themselves, even if they look a lot older than their years.
However much younger men have contacted me and asked to meet and I have responded that a 10 year age gap is not of interest to me. Maybe they feel I would be grateful for the attention of a man 10 years my junior. It is just a silly notion for both genders to be dating so far out of their age range.
An older man can dream of his fantasy arm-candy, a cure for a midlife crisis, but a quality man, one who wants a relationship with a solid amazing forty plus woman will look deeper into your profile and see an amazing woman who is interesting and full of life experiences and fun and appreciate you for that.
We are all hardwired to seek out the most youthful, robust partner for a relationship. A provider and someone who can be healthy and hold their own, in life is going to seem more attractive, as this is what we needed in past lives. We all find different aspects attractive. There is not much you can do about the forty plus men who date to satisfy their ego. Let them do what they want. It’s their prerogative.
A quality forty plus man, who is mature, will want the whole package in a long term partner. A woman who takes care of herself emotionally, physically, and spiritually and is happy with her own life but will allow you in on her own terms. She’s young at heart and playful. She’s smart and isn’t afraid to let down her guard and let the right man into her life.
We all need to stay focused and positive towards our goal of attracting the love of your life.