How to make an impression on a date on Older Dating Online
We all like to feel that we are connecting with someone who is similar to ourselves and that means that there is an immediate connection. If we mirror peoples actions in a subtle way there will be a connection and a feeling of being alike.
So if you both smile at the same things or lean in towards each other, you are mirroring each other’s behaviours. If you struggle to express your feelings, mirroring your date’s behaviour is a great way to subconsciously show them you’re interested in getting to know your Older Dating Online date better.
Fronting is a way of matching your date’s actions and forming a connection without touching or being intimidating or scary. This is when you face your entire body from head to toe toward your date. If your date stays engaged and pointed toward you, it’s a great sign. If you look at the direction their toes are pointed will be a good sign as to whether they are interested in you or not. If their toes are pointed towards you that is a good sign but if their toes are aimed at the escape door they are possibly thinking of heading towards that door.
When your date leans toward you, it’s a clear sign they are attracted and want to be closer to you. The opposite is also true. When they sit far back in their chair or take a step back from you, it shows their discomfort with the environment or conversation. Body positions and body language is a strong indicator as to what your date feels about you.
Everyone likes to feel that they are being listened to so appear interested to be interesting. Ask questions in a friendly interested manner, as this will show that you would like to get to know your forty plus date better. Believe it or not this makes you more interesting as a dater. Being aloof is no fun for anyone in real life and certainly not a good way to enhance a date. Showing that you are curious about topics and the world around you is a great way to show that you are interesting and fun to be with. If you know nothing about a topic, show willingness to learn and ask intelligent questions and this will prove that you are a curious person and is very attractive. A perfect match doesn’t require perfect compatibility it just requires an enquiring mind and a willingness to listen and learn in an interested manner.
Don’t make assumptions about your forty plus dater, as first impressions are not always accurate and can be misleading. Give it time to ask questions and learn more about the older person that you are meeting, before you start making decisions about your date.