Making sure that you are a kind person on Older Dating Online
When you are online dating, on Older Dating Online you have to ensure that you are kind and considerate or your date will not agree to continue seeing you. So if you have picked up bad habits in a previous relationship you need to ensure that you have a rethink about the way you act.
Everything we do and each word we say either builds or breaks down. If you are building a relationship then you need to start building a foundation and every day is a process.
I went on a date recently and it seemed that my date felt that his feelings and needs mattered more than mine. He seemed to think that sex was his right and that it didn’t matter that I was not interested in a one night stand or casual sex. It seemed that as I had agreed to go on a date it was a given that we would have sex after the dinner.
I could not believe that we were in the same decade as far as his outmoded attitude went.
If we are online dating on Older Dating Online it is important to realise that we are all individuals with our own thoughts and opinions, so we need to maintain focus. It is a date to establish if we can build a relationship and not a given that the date will end in sex.
I did not enjoy fighting off some very persistent hands and I will not be seeing that date again, even though up until that point it had been an enjoyable evening. Every moment and every action matters, so ensure that you are kind polite and considerate when you are on a date.
Just because it is online dating should not mean that you loose your manners and respect, for the person that you are with.