Do forty plus men need advice for online dating on Older Dating Online
It may feel that forty plus men are always giving advice and making decisions about forty plus dates, however more single forty plus women are making their voices heard about the way dating should happen and this can take some forty plus men by surprise. Reading some of the diaries that appear on Older Dating Online many single men are puzzled by the reactions of single women on Older Dating Online.
Therefore we asked single women to offer some dating advice for online dating, when singles are looking for love, romance and a strong relationship.
Stop being rude and asking inappropriate questions, it is just that inappropriate and not cool at all so please stop doing it. I am not going to ask you `how big you are‘. Being rude and forward is not flirting and it is not clever and believe me it is not original either so please remember your manners.
When you are communicating online remember the details, please don’t get one online daters mixed up with another. If I remember your name and the things that we have talked about the least you can do is remember my details. It may seem obvious, but if you can’t remember details then it would seem that you are either not serious or are dating more than one person at a time, which is not a problem but be upfront about it. Be clear and honest with your intentions are from the beginning, most women appreciate that.. Just as I read many men also expect and want honesty, it is just about integrity.
Don’t hit on your forty plus dater and inform her that you expect immediate intimacy and you haven’t even met or spoken yet. It is called a dating site !!!
Having said that the first date is not automatically going to end in the bed either, so don’t expect it. It is about respect and getting to know each other. Women are different to men, obviously so take into consideration we are more emotional and feel differently about intimacy than you do. Friendship is a great foundation to a meaningful relationship. Instead of the forty plus man trying to have a date, that sole purpose is to get his date into bed as soon as possible, be patient and start a relationship instead.. A woman is probably going to want to take it slower and get to know you first. A woman’s instinct is to nurture so don’t expect them to behave like a man.
Men, please aim for honesty with your intentions when you’re dating a forty plus woman. If you really like a woman and you have been dating her for a while, please let her know how you feel about her. Have a conversation with her about making things exclusive. Don’t allow her to be confused about what’s going on or to be left dangling from a string. Talk about your needs and desires to your date clearly, and not in a joking or passive way, neither of you are mind readers.
Spontaneity is fun and great here and there, but show me you respect my time and let me know things in advance, so that I can also plan my life. If you want my time you have to value it., just as I value and respect your time.
When we are on a date pay attention to me, not the other woman that walks past with most of her body exposed. I could also look at other men, but I am with you remember that. My advice to men on online dating is that they are honest and treat women with respect, just as we will respect you. And be honest about our feelings for you and that way no-one gets hurt on online dating.