Can your pet help your romance on Older Dating Online
It can be said that we can be better people if we behaved more like dogs, sometimes I thing that I need to up my game to be more like the forty plus person my dog thinks I am. Maybe we can learn a thing or two from our pets when we are forty plus dating.
Of course your pet can’t teach you how to create an online dating profile on Olderdatingonline.com but perhaps your pet can teach you a few other good qualities. Pets and in particular dogs love us unconditional, no matter what kind of day we have had, they are always happy to welcome us back home. So they are non judgemental. The world would be a kinder place if we followed suit in that regard.
Your dog doesn’t mind about your age, your weight or your height, they just love you for who you are.That would be great if we could find a loving forty plus partner who had those feelings towards us.
The unconditional and relaxed love you have for your pet can teach you about loving your forty plus date too.
When you first brought your pet home, did they look you up and down and judge your clothes and wonder about your accent or your income. My dog has never judged my car or commented on the outfit I was wearing. They looked at the new home that I brought then too and they loved it and appreciated that I cared for them and showed them affection.
Animals don’t judge, they accept you for who you are and they offer affection and companionship and they love it when you return that affection with kindness. Try to remember this the next time your forty plus date likes a different kind of music, or your date turns up wearing a jacket you dislike. I have been on a date where I was told that my date didn’t like the brooch I was wearing and did a mock shudder, so what……….
In the eyes of your dog you are the best person they have ever met and they could not love you more if they tried. They always want to be around you, play with you or even just sit next to you when you are watching the TV or reading a book. When you’re on a walk, your dog would never run off with another dog walker, so they could teach us about faithfulness and loyalty. You are their best friend and they don’t want anyone else, they are content with you and they look past your failings.
Now we’re not suggesting you follow your forty plus date on every outing and refuse to leave their side, forsaking your own interests and hobbies, however if you have made a commitment to be in a serious forty plus relationship then loyalty is important and remind yourself that you love them and have decided to be with them. Love means loyalty.
Animals have a special sense and they understand when you are feeling low and need a cuddle and a bit of extra TLC. Of course you are just as considerate in return by looking after their needs and seeing that they are loved and comfortable.
Sometimes we get so caught up in our busy lives we may not be as considerate as we should be. A cup of tea and a nice warm cooked meal when we get home after a busy day, shows consideration and that can go a long way when it comes to forty plus dating.
One of the great things about having a pet is that no matter what time of the day it is they always love to show and receive affection. When you are dating it is important to show affection and be tactile with each other in a caring manner, like holding hands or giving them an extra-long hug when you say hello, at the end of the day. We all need touch to feel loved and pets need to be spoken to in a loving way to feel appreciated and daters need the same affirmation.
Smiling and having fun together is needed in any relationship and laughing brings out the good feelings in both daters and animals. Pets are always ready for a game. So, next time you feel tired or bogged down don’t put off the trip to the cinema or the trip to a new restaurant or a walk around the park, take the opportunity to enjoy a break in the usual routine.
You both need to take the rough with the smooth and just as you need to take your pet to the vet and the same applies to your dating relationship. You have to put the bins out and you may not like going to the boring dinner party but that is what a relationship is all about. Relationships are not all plain sailing but if you both work at them then they are certainly worth the effort.
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