There are different qualities to sex at different stages in a long relationship. Most forty plus singles will appreciate the slower intimacy of midlife intimacy with like-minded couples.
Often our culture presents only one type of intimacy as being valid: youthful, vigorous, usually penetrative. However it is possible that singles can experience and maintain a happy sex-life for many years, certainty well pass their forty plus years. It may not be as frequent or vigorous, or the sort of sexual intimacy, that you think you should be having, or think others must be having, just relax and enjoy this special kind of intimacy together with your date and appreciate that if it feels relaxed and natural to both of you it is obviously right for you both and that makes it all the more enjoyable.
Appreciate what life still has to offer while you can as a forty plus person. The great wonder of being a single is that we know that we have a lot of history behind us but that in today’s living longer generation we still have a lot of enriching years ahead of us.
If you have managed to successfully get through the ups and downs of bringing up children, work and making ends meet, then you can appreciate how special life is.
The rewards can be great when you have a wealth of memories to laugh over and if you accept each other in your entirety, rather than fearing getting older, you could find that meeting a forty plus single could lead to a relationship that brings about the happiest years together.
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Sarah Hussey xx