If you’re single and hoping that 2018 will be the year you find true forty plus love, you need to give yourself the best chance at success.
Here’s how you can open yourself up to finding real love in 2018, and make sure you’re ready for it when it finds you.
Learn to love yourself first and appreciate that you are a great forty plus date.
If you don’t love and appreciate yourself, how do you expect anybody else to?
We all have our own set of imperfections and flaws. Whatever it is that you’re struggling to love – there is someone out there who will adore that part of you, because it makes you who you are.
Learn to embrace your uniqueness and be proud of the forty plus dater you are. When you’re happy and confident within yourself, you’ll realise exactly what you deserve, and it’ll be so much easier to attract the right forty plus companion.
Let go of the past, but make sure the lessons that you have learnt in the last forty years are appreciated and make you wise but not bitter. You can’t move forward if you keep looking backwards. So make sure that you can be completely present in the now, and attract someone new into your life.
Make sure that you are on the right online dating site for you. If you are looking for a serious long-term relationship it is pointless being on a site that is reknowned for fast short term pick up’s. Older Dating Online has a higher emphasis on genuine connections.
Looking at dating profiles allows you to gauge your own personality, and what you’re looking for and then you can search for a forty plus dater who matches your hobbies, interests and goals in life.
Wherever you choose to date, make sure the spirit of the forty plus date fits what you’re looking for. It can make all the difference between meeting a catch and a catastrophe.
Focus on becoming the best forty plus single that you possibly can. What is it that you’re looking for in a partner? Kindness, intelligence, loyalty, adventure? Now, focus on how you can gradually build those qualities within yourself.
You see, like attracts like – if you want to attract a warm, loving person who treats you well then you need to be the same type of person. Be the real you and don’t wear a mask. There is a difference between putting your best foot forward and being untrue to yourself.
Remember, there is someone out there for everyone.
Sarah Hussey xx