Ever heard that age is just a number and if you are a man dating a woman older than you you will realise that with today’s women that is the case as senior women have never looked so good as they do now.
Dating relationships that cross generations are no longer a social misfit and frowned upon.
However if you are younger man lucky enough to be in a dating relationship with a more mature woman then there are a few things to consider.
When dating a more mature women you will possibly have different lifestyles as you will be at different stages in your lives. You might still be establishing your career, living in shared accommodation, or saving up to go on holidays where as she might be financially secure, a mother and maybe divorced and have experienced a long-term relationship, rather than flings.
This could cause conflict and you will need to establish what you’re both looking for from the relationship early on so that you are both on the same page as far as your requirements.
If having a family is something you want as a younger man then your more mature date might not to start having children again. Consider what you both desire from a long-term relationship if that is what you are planning and if your values and plans are aligned.
They don’t call mature women cougars for nothing! Women reach their sexual peak later in life than men, so an older woman and younger man may find that they’re perfectly in sync sexually. Older women know what they want, so you might need to relinquish control and allow your mature date to show you the way to go about things in the bedroom.
A mature woman will have had a few relationships before she met her younger beau and therefore she will not what she wants and will soon tell you what she doesn’t want. So a younger man can forget about playing games.
Not every forty plus woman is looking for a long-term relationship with a younger man. She may be just looking for a fling. It’s best to be honest about your intentions at the onset and avoid heartbreak further into the relationship.
A forty plus woman will be wise to any games and will realise if you are not genuine. If your intentions for dating a forty plus woman are sincere, you won’t have a problem and she will be honest with you too.